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Sexual 8 ~ MBTI, Enneagram, and Socionics Personality Type

Sexual 8

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ESTP 5
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sx/so 2
SEE 4
VFEL 1
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public myers-briggs votes
(21/07/09 12:16) Tman: ESFP
(18/11/10 18:27) tch: ESTP
(18/10/17 22:51) LadyX: ESTP
(18/07/14 09:20) johncena: ESTP
(18/07/10 01:33) Taco110: ESTP
(18/06/25 12:57) Dollar Shave Club One Wipe Scottys: ESTP
(18/06/25 12:40) Teru Mikami: ESTP
(18/06/25 12:27) strawberry crisis: ISTJ
(18/06/25 06:27) switchblades: ESTP
public function votes
(21/07/09 12:16) Tman: ESTP
(18/07/11 02:18) fg: ESTP
(18/06/25 12:40) Teru Mikami: ESTP
(18/06/25 06:28) switchblades: ESTP
public enneagram votes
(19/10/12 15:32) Tman: 8w7
(18/10/17 22:51) LadyX: 8w7
(18/06/25 12:40) Teru Mikami: 8w7
(18/06/25 06:28) switchblades: 8w7
public instinctual variant votes
(19/10/12 15:35) Tman: sx/so
(18/06/25 12:40) Teru Mikami: sx/so
public tritype® votes
(21/07/09 12:17) Tman: 864
public sociotype votes
(19/10/12 15:34) Tman: SEE
(18/07/11 02:18) fg: SEE
(19/01/11 22:10) Taco110: SEE
(18/06/25 06:35) switchblades: SEE
public psychosophy votes
(19/11/03 15:08) Tman: VFEL
public hexaco votes
LadyX intp 5


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2018-10-18 01:18:39am (post #3682)
Dollar Shave Club One Wipe Scottys INTP 5w4
Ehh, some of those traits are less E and P. but Sx doms are still at their core high-energy, stimulation seeking, and have a disregard for rules and structure.

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2018-06-25 08:15:32pm (post #1494)
strawberry crisis enfp 7
- Can be one of the most devoted, big-hearted and loving types once they trust their partner
- Truly want to have a partnership of equality where they don’t feel the need to control and
possess
- Want to know everything about their partner – body, mind and soul; no secret is too sacred
- An honest fight/argument that brings out the truth allows Sexual 8s to feel closer to their
partner
- Can surrender control and be genuinely soft, vulnerable and tender with their partner once
they have won their partner’s loyalty and affections and have no fear of being betrayed
- Some Sexual 8s like a partner to be strong and direct, to stand his/her ground against the 8
- Other Sexual 8s like a more withdrawn type of partner that they can mold
- Are very protective of their partner
- Are charismatic, passionate and truthful
Negative/Depleting:
- Inner tension between wanting to connect with my partner on a deep level vs. needing to stay in control
- Tend to take charge of their partner’s life; want to possess him/her; feel the impulse to
command/boss
- For all their bravado, Sexual 8s actually have a deep fear of rejection which is why they
feel the need to possess and control their partner in the first place
- Tend to be lusty in love; can be competitive, impulsive and impatient too
- Like a good heated debate or argument every once in a while with their partner
- Get angry when their partner makes an important decision without consulting the 8 first
- Get angry when their partner withholds information from the 8 during a fight/argument.
- Sexual 8s want their partner to be direct and honest and not withhold their thoughts or
emotions from them
- Tend to be assertive and confrontational in relationships; prefer intense relationships to comfortable ones
- Can be extremely suspicious and fear betrayal
- Tend to demand loyalty and attention from their partner; can act parental or superior at
times
- Tend to question and test their partner’s motives and actions in the beginning stages of
the relationship
- Won’t let down their guard or relax their control in a relationship until they know it is safe to do so
- Can have a very difficult time letting go of a relationship once it is over
- Once they have fallen in love with their partner Sexual 8s can become codependent and/or jealous
- At worst, can completely control and dominate their partner and isolate him/her from other people
- At worst, can be abusive, vengeful, sadistic or even commit crimes of passion


I just have a lot of trouble seeing this as either E or P. I think they leave it ambiguous enough here for those to come into play, but the person I mentally fit into this mold just doesn't seem like they'd be more E than I or P than J in MBTI.

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2018-06-25 06:00:22pm (post #1491)
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